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Tending Our Garden

Quiet Faithfulness and the Transformation of the World

I am not a fan of the French philosopher Voltaire, or of the French Revolution that came in part as a result of his ideas (though we modern Americans are far more influenced by such things than we probably realize). However, he didn’t get everything wrong. In a story he wrote, after experiencing severe disasters and finding the world chaotic and illogical, the characters in the story conclude that focusing on productive, manageable work—symbolized by gardening—is the only way to find happiness and avoid destructive despair. In other words, instead of focusing on every problem in the world, they should just tend their own garden. And that phrase and that idea has been rolling around in my head lately. 

As I’ve mentioned before, at Cornerstone Academy I’m currently teaching through the Westminster Shorter Catechism, and as of late we’ve been working through the questions and answers on the Ten Commandments. As we’ve spent time on the Fifth and Sixth Commandments, I’ve found myself thinking more carefully about how these commandments shape not only personal ethics, but the structure of authority, the preservation of life, and the calling of the church, especially in a time of cultural turmoil.

If you’ve been watching the news or been online at all lately I’m sure you’ve noticed that we seem to be living in a moment when corruption, injustice, and grave sin among governing authorities and citizens of this nation are increasingly visible. And with all of that it is easy to feel overwhelmed or tempted toward despair—to believe that the problems are too large, the rot too deep, and the ordinary Christian too insignificant to make any real difference. But Scripture consistently calls God’s people to a different posture: not panic or retreat, but prayerful, hopeful, and quiet faithfulness. In short, we are called to tend our garden.

The Fifth Commandment and God’s Order for Authority

The Fifth Commandment—“Honor thy father and thy mother”—is far more expansive than we often realize. While it begins in the home, Scripture applies its principle to all lawful authority. God governs the world through representatives, and He teaches us to honor Him by honoring those He has placed over us.

Since there are committed Christians in the current presidential administration the subject of separation of church and state often comes up. And Reformed theology recognizes that there is indeed a separation of such things because God has established distinct spheres of governing authority, each with its own responsibilities and limits:

  • In the home, parents have jurisdiction, and they exercise their authority by providing, protecting, nurturing, educating, and disciplining with the power of the rod, not as harsh domination, but as loving discipline ordered toward formation and life.
  • In the church, pastors and elders have jurisdiction, and they exercise their authority with the keys of the Kingdom, preaching, teaching, and guarding doctrine, administering the sacraments, and exercising discipline for the good of Christ’s flock.
  • In civil society, magistrates and officials have jurisdiction, and they exercise their authority by bearing the power of the sword, tasked with restraining evil and protecting the innocent.

Each of these authorities is real. Each is accountable to God. And none is absolute. Authority is given not for self-interest, but for service—especially for the protection of life. Each sphere is meant to promote good and restrain and punish evil in their own way. But that means each sphere must know what good and evil truly are… Which means that though their is (to some degree) a separation of home, church, and state, there must never be a separation of God and home, God and church, and God and state. All are under the Lordship of Christ and therefore must be governed by and in line with God’s Word.

Honoring authority, therefore, is not blind obedience (we see this in Romans 13 as well). Biblically, to honor an authority is not merely to submit to it, but to desire its faithfulness. When authorities rule justly, they are to be obeyed with gladness. When they fail—when they abuse power, neglect their calling, or promote what God forbids—honor may require resistance, correction, confrontation, prayer for repentance, and even lawful removal. This is not rebellion; it is covenantal responsibility.

The Sixth Commandment and the Positive Duty to Protect Life

The Sixth Commandment—“Thou shalt not murder”—goes right along with this idea of covenant responsibility. It does more than prohibit unlawful killing. It positively commands the preservation, defense, and promotion of life.

Parents protect life by nurturing and disciplining children in the fear of the Lord. Church leaders protect life by guarding souls, confronting destructive sin, and restoring the wandering. Civil rulers protect life by punishing evildoers and upholding justice.

When any sphere abandons this calling, life is threatened—not only physically, but morally, socially, and generationally. And when such failures occur, God’s people are not called to silence, but to faithful response shaped by hope rather than fear.

In fact, God’s people, and their faithfulness, especially their faithfulness as the church in worship and fellowship, is what sets the patter for the world. Every sphere of life is under the authority of God’s Word. And God’s Word is rightly preached, taught, and applied in and through the church. The Church, as the covenant community of Christ, is called to be and to form a people whose worship, families, education, work, laws, and arts set the pattern for the world, showing what life looks like when all things are ordered according to God’s wisdom. Our faithfulness matters more than we realize.

Prayer, Peace, and the Mission of God

As I was considering what God expects of His people when the authorities over them have abandoned God’s Law a specific passage kept coming to mind. In 1 Timothy 2 Paul writes, “I exhort therefore, that, first of all, supplications, prayers, intercessions, and giving of thanks, be made for all men; for kings, and for all that are in authority; that we may lead a quiet and peaceable life in all godliness and honesty.”

Paul writes these words under rulers who were far from righteous. Yet he does not first call the church to agitation or withdrawal, but to prayer. Prayer is not a last resort; it is first of all. God governs history through means, and prayer is one of the chief means He has ordained.

The purpose of such prayer is not escapism. Paul tells us that God orders civil authority so that His people may live “a quiet and peaceable life in all godliness and honesty.” This quietness is not compromise. It is stability ordered toward mission. It creates space for worship, discipleship, family life, and the spread of the gospel.

Paul goes on to say that this is “good and acceptable in the sight of God our Savior; who will have all men to be saved, and to come unto the knowledge of the truth.” In other words, prayer for rulers, ordered life, and gospel advance are inseparably connected. God desires the salvation of the nations, and He uses ordinary faithfulness—prayer, obedience, patience—as instruments to accomplish it. Your faithfulness is an instrument in the Redeemers hands to bring about the salvation of the world. 

Quiet Lives and Loud Fruit

This passage reminds us that the Kingdom of God often advances quietly. Seeds grow underground before they break the surface. Leaven works its way through the dough slowly. Trees mature over years, not moments.

The church is not called to manufacture hope by reading the headlines optimistically. Our hope is anchored in the promises of God. Christ reigns now. His gospel is powerful. And His Kingdom will fill the earth—not necessarily through spectacle, but through sustained, covenantal faithfulness. Obedience in the same direction over the long-haul. 

I recently heard Dr. George Grant say, “If we live out the first question of the Westminster Shorter Catechism, ‘What is the chief end of man? Man’s chief end is to glorify God and to enjoy Him forever.’ If we do that in every arena of life, we’ll change the world.”

Glorifying God and the glory of God can be overwhelming and confusing concepts. I’m currently reading through The Weight of Glory, by C. S. Lewis. In it he presses us to recover a vision of glory that is far richer than spectacle or acclaim. He reminds us that all creation already glorifies God—not by striving upward, but by obediently reflecting what it was made to be. Mountains do not preach sermons. Stars do not organize movements. And yet, Scripture tells us that “the heavens declare the glory of God.” They glorify Him simply by fulfilling their appointed role.

Lewis then pushes the point further: if this is true of nature, how much more true must it be of human beings—creatures made in God’s image, redeemed by Christ, and destined for glory? We are not called merely to admire glory from the outside, but to be brought into it—to be conformed to Christ, and in that conformity to reflect God’s splendor in the world.

This insight sheds light on how we glorify God and on Paul’s exhortation in 1 Timothy 2. A quiet and peaceable life, lived in godliness and honesty, is not a diminished life. It is a life heavy with glory. It is a life aligned with reality. When God’s people pray faithfully, live obediently, honor authority rightly, protect life courageously, and persevere patiently, they are doing far more than surviving dark times. They are magnifying the glory of God in precisely the way He has ordained.

This helps us resist the lie that we must be loud, out front, and noticed to be effective. As Gandalf says in The Hobbit, “I have found that it’s the small everyday deed of ordinary folks that keep the darkness at bay. Small acts of kindness and love.” Much of the world is changed not through dramatic moments, but through sustained obedience—through families raised in the fear of the Lord, churches that worship week after week, Christians who tell the truth, love their neighbors, and refuse despair. As Lewis suggests, the glory that awaits God’s people gives even the smallest acts of obedience eternal significance. Quiet faithfulness is never wasted. It is charged with glory.

This is what it means to tend our garden. We worship faithfully. We raise our children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. We submit every area of life to Christ’s Lordship. We pray for those in authority—even when they disappoint us. And we trust that God is at work in ways we cannot yet see.

Hope and Ordinary Obedience

Christian hope is optimistic, but it is not naïve. It is resurrection-shaped. It looks at the cross, the empty tomb, and the enthroned Christ, and concludes that history is moving somewhere good. It looks at the promises of God and knows that history is moving somewhere good. It operates by faith, not by sight. 

We wait patiently, knowing God keeps His promises. We work faithfully, knowing our labor in the Lord is not in vain. We stand fast, refusing fear or compromise. And we hope confidently, because Christ has already won.

Robert Murray M’Cheyne once pointed out that we should take an honest look at our hearts, but we must not stop there. For every look at ourselves we must take ten looks at Christ. And if that’s true for our own hearts how much more so with the world? For every corrupt politician, for every disturbing headline, for every sin and hardship, take ten looks at Christ. For He is altogether lovely, and He is altogether faithful. He will keep His promises. He will not fail. Every knee will bow and every tongue will confess that Jesus is Lord to the glory of God the Father (Philippians 2:5-11). So we must look to Christ and tend our own garden in hope. 

What Tending Our Garden Looks Like 

For most Christians, tending our garden will not look dramatic. It will look ordinary—and that is precisely the point.

It looks like parents disciplining and delighting in their children, teaching them to pray, to sing, to repent, and to love the truth, even when the culture catechizes against them. It looks like husbands and wives, fathers and mothers refusing despair and choosing patient obedience in the home.

It looks like churches that gather week after week—sometimes tired, sometimes small, usually unimpressive by worldly standards—yet faithfully worshiping, confessing sin, receiving forgiveness, hearing the Word preached, and coming again to the Table. That kind of worship is not retreat; it is warfare.

It looks like Christians who pray regularly for rulers they often did not choose and often do not trust, asking God to restrain evil, grant repentance, and order society in such a way that the gospel may run free.

But tending our garden also includes holding authority accountable within its proper sphere, and doing so in a manner shaped by faith rather than fear.

In the home, this may mean parents humbling themselves, repenting when they sin against their children, and submitting their own authority to the Word of God. It may also mean children, as they grow, learning how to speak honestly and respectfully rather than silently absorbing injustice or reacting with rebellion. It may mean a wife giving a gentle rebuke to her husband, and the husband receiving it with humility. And to be sure, it means that all in the house keep short accounts, being ready and willing to humbly repent, and to graciously call out when needed.

In the church, accountability looks like leaders shepherding one another, congregations taking church discipline seriously, and members addressing sin through biblical means rather than gossip, bitterness, or quiet disengagement. Christ has given His church the keys of the Kingdom not to dominate, but to guard life and restore the wandering.

In civil society, accountability may look like citizens speaking truthfully, voting responsibly, petitioning lawfully, resisting evil without panic, and—when necessary—seeking the removal of corrupt leaders through legitimate means. This is not dishonor, but a form of honor rightly understood: desiring rulers to fulfill the calling God has given them.

Yet in every sphere, accountability is never severed from prayer. We do not hold leaders accountable as those who have lost hope, but as those who believe God can restrain, convert, humble, or remove them according to His wise purposes. Prayer keeps our hearts from cynicism and our actions from bitterness. It reminds us that we are not saviors, and that history does not rest on our vigilance alone.

It looks like speaking the truth calmly rather than constantly shouting, acting justly rather than merely posting opinions, and loving neighbors patiently rather than assuming the worst.

It looks like men and women who show up to work, keep their word, tell the truth, honor authority rightly, resist evil faithfully, and refuse to believe that obedience is pointless simply because it is quiet.

None of this will trend online. Much of it will go unnoticed. But Scripture assures us that it is precisely this kind of faithfulness—rooted in prayer, shaped by truth, and sustained over time—that God delights to bless.

Tending Our Garden Until the World Is Changed

The Fifth and Sixth Commandments teach us that authority exists to protect life, and that life flourishes where God’s order is honored. 1 Timothy 2 reminds us that prayer and quiet faithfulness are central to that calling.

So we pray. We obey. We speak truth without panic. We honor authority without idolizing it. We hold rulers accountable without surrendering hope. And we trust that our gracious God, who desires that all be saved, will use the faithful lives of His people as a means to accomplish His purposes.

So tend your garden. Live quietly, faithfully, courageously. And trust that God is transforming the world—often in ways far more powerful than we imagine. 

“Those who sow in tears shall reap with shouts of joy” (Psalm 126:5)!

In Christ’s service and yours,
Nick Esch